You actually seem to be outnumbered as you are among the few female profiles I've encountered expressing this kind of view. Way more often than not, I see females making comments along the lines of "I need," "take my monies," or "instant pre-order!"
Try expressing your displeasure of female sexualization to the Super Sonico, Kill la Kill or Senran Kagura fangirls and see how they respond.This is an interesting comment coming from a profile with the occupation of "Fujoshi." The focus of this fandom is the sexual objectification and homo-sexualization of male anime characters. No one is bothered by what you do, so why should I be concerned with your oddly imbalanced sensibilities regarding the contents of my collection?
I feel like thinking two guys together is cute is not even comparable to owning multiple figures of naked women and hanging those kind of images everywhere on your wall. But you are right: as long as you're not hurting anyone, there is no need for me to get upset. Still though, seeing women as sex objects is not okay.